Question:
I am married and have a 6-month-old son. Before marriage, I was in a relationship for about 2 years. The person cheated on me, promising to marry me, but since I got married, he has been threatening and blackmailing me to keep in touch with him. He wants to see inappropriate things on video calls. I’m frustrated. If I don’t answer, he posts my private photos on Facebook, then demands I delete them. If my husband or mother-in-law finds out, it could break my family. Please help me, I don’t know what to do.
Answer:
You are facing serious threats and harassment, and it’s important to take legal action immediately to protect yourself. Here are the steps you can take:
1. Report the Blackmail to the Police:
- Cybercrime Complaint: Blackmailing, threatening, and sharing private photos without consent are crimes under Section 57 of the Information and Communication Technology (ICT) Act, 2006. The act criminalizes the misuse of information technology for harassment, including posting intimate photos or videos online.
- Filing a Police Report: Visit the local police station and file a First Information Report (FIR) against the person blackmailing you. Mention all details, including threats, photos, and messages. Request an investigation.
2. Seek Legal Protection (Court Order):
- Protection Order: If you fear for your safety or emotional well-being, you can apply for a protection order from the family court. This order would prevent the individual from contacting or threatening you.
- Injunction: If necessary, a court can issue an injunction to prevent further publication of your private photos.
3. Remove Photos from Social Media:
- Request Social Media Platforms to Remove Content: You can directly contact social media platforms like Facebook to request the removal of private photos. Social media platforms have procedures to address such issues and may take down content that violates privacy.
- Legal Notice: If the individual refuses to remove the photos, a lawyer can send a legal notice demanding the immediate deletion of the content and that they cease all harassment.
4. Document Evidence:
- Save All Communications: Keep a record of all threats, messages, and photos, as these will serve as evidence in your case.
- Screenshots: Take screenshots of the blackmail, messages, and any social media posts made by the individual.
5. Discuss with Your Husband:
- Open Communication: Although it may seem difficult, it’s important to talk to your husband about the situation. Being open will help prevent misunderstandings in the future. Seek his support and understanding.
6. Psychological Support:
- Seek Counseling: The emotional toll of such harassment can be heavy. It’s advisable to seek psychological support through a counselor to help you cope with the situation.