Question:
My sister-in-law frequently finds fault in everything my parents do and reacts angrily whenever my mother tries to help her with household chores. She often fights with my brother and runs away to her parents’ house. Recently, she attempted suicide after a fight with my brother, but my mother and I stopped her in time. My sister-in-law blames everything on my parents, which leads to big arguments. I also discovered she was in a relationship with another man after her marriage, and I have messages proving this. I fear she may cause harm to my parents, me, or even herself. Her father has political influence as a BNP leader in a local market. I want to take legal action to protect my family and ensure they can’t harm us. What should I do?
Answer:
In a situation where family disputes escalate to this level, it is crucial to handle the matter with care, both legally and personally. Here are some legal options you can consider under Bangladesh law to protect your family and yourself:
- Document the Incidents: Keep a detailed record of all incidents of abuse, threats, and misconduct. This includes text messages, eyewitness accounts, and any attempts your sister-in-law may have made to harm herself or others.
- File a General Diary (GD): You can file a General Diary (GD) at your local police station. This will officially notify law enforcement about the threats, misconduct, and any risk of harm to your family. A GD is not as serious as a formal case but acts as a preventive measure in case something happens in the future.
- Seek Protection Under the Domestic Violence Act: The Domestic Violence (Prevention and Protection) Act, 2010 offers protection to individuals facing abuse from family members. You can file a case under this law, seeking protection for your parents and yourself from any form of physical, emotional, or mental abuse from your sister-in-law. The court can issue an order restricting her from causing harm or entering your family home.
- Consider Defamation and Criminal Charges: If your sister-in-law or her family tries to defame or threaten your parents, you can file a defamation suit under the Defamation Law (Section 499 of the Penal Code). Additionally, any threats of physical harm can be dealt with under criminal law by filing charges for criminal intimidation (Section 503 of the Penal Code).
- Restraining Orders: If her behavior escalates to the point where you fear for your family’s safety, your lawyer can file for a restraining order, which legally prevents your sister-in-law from approaching your family or causing any harm. The Code of Civil Procedure, 1908 allows for such protective measures.
- Consult a Lawyer: Given the political connections of your sister-in-law’s family, it is wise to consult with a lawyer who can advise you on how to proceed carefully while minimizing the risk of retaliation. The lawyer can also assist in drafting the GD or any formal complaints.
By following these steps, you can legally protect your family from harassment or harm. Always consult with a lawyer before taking legal actions, and ensure that all documentation is in place to support your claims.