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How to Handle Domestic Abuse and Online Harassment After Marriage

Question

What legal actions can I take against my husband for domestic violence and cyber harassment, considering he is currently abroad and I have no financial support?

Answer

I’m sorry to hear about your situation. It’s important to understand that you have legal options available to you in Bangladesh. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to address the issues of domestic violence and cyber harassment:

  • Understanding Domestic Violence: According to the Domestic Violence (Prevention and Protection) Act, 2010, domestic violence includes physical, emotional, and economic abuse. Your husband’s physical assault, along with his financial control and harassment, falls under this law.
  • Collecting Evidence:
    • Audio Recordings: The audio recordings you made can serve as crucial evidence. They can demonstrate his abusive behavior and confessions.
    • Screenshots: Take screenshots of any abusive messages or posts he has made online. Document the dates, times, and contexts of these incidents.
    • Witnesses: If there are any witnesses to the abuse or if friends/family can attest to his behavior, gather their statements.
  • Filing a Complaint:
    • You can file a complaint under the Domestic Violence Act at the local police station in Chittagong. The police are obligated to investigate claims of domestic violence.
    • Additionally, you can file a Cyber Crime complaint with the Cyber Crime Unit of the Bangladesh Police for harassment via social media. The Digital Security Act, 2018 allows victims of cyber harassment to seek justice.
  • Law Enforcement’s Role:
    • Even though your husband is abroad, law enforcement can investigate his actions. They can contact relevant authorities in the country he is in to assist in the investigation.
    • Law enforcement may also question his family in Bangladesh to gather information regarding his behavior and your claims.
  • Legal Representation:
    • Although you mentioned financial constraints, there are NGOs and legal aid services in Bangladesh that provide free legal assistance. Organizations like the Bangladesh Legal Aid and Services Trust (BLAST) can help you navigate the legal process.
  • Protection Orders:
    • If you feel unsafe, you can seek a protection order from the court. This can legally restrict him from contacting you or coming near you.
  • Family Support:
    • While you might feel isolated due to your choice of marriage, reaching out to supportive friends or community organizations can provide emotional support.
  • Take Action:
    • Don’t hesitate to act quickly. The longer you wait, the harder it may become to gather evidence or take action. Your safety and well-being are paramount.